Aug 30, 2011

Facebook

Facebook is a popular and widely used social network founded by Mark Zuckerberg along with his roommates and fellow computer students: Eduardo Saverin, Dustin Moskovitz, and Chris Hughes.

Almost everyone knows this ‘useful’ site. But, is it really useful?  Are there any side effects? Well, everything has its own positive and negative side, and Facebook is not an exception.

A friend of mine said that we could call Facebook: Fakebook, where we make fake friends. I don’t agree with his opinion due to various reasons. The main reason was that we started our friendship through Facebook. Although we were classmates, we didn’t talk to each other at all. Not until I made a Facebook account. So, in this case I can say that Facebook really is useful.

Besides that, I found some ‘long lost friends’ through it. We chatted, we had fun, and we talked about random things just to heal the feeling of loneliness at night. In the other hand, Facebook also brought destruction to our relationship. Well, the story is too complicated to tell.

Now, let’s talk about it according to the experts’ opinion and research.

As we knew, Facebook has been a fertile land for marketing. A lot of companies are ‘displaying’ their products through advertisements on Facebook. Many say that it is pretty effective since a lot of people from the whole world can see the advertisements easily.

In the contrary, psychologist Mary Helen Immordino-Yang from the University of Southern California said, "If things are happening too fast, you may not ever fully experience emotions about other people's psychological states and that would have implications for your morality." She means, by staring at your computer screen all day: facebooking, it makes our brain activity faster. While for making some decisions, especially moral decision, our brain needs adequate time and reflection.

So, what do you think? Is Facebook really useful? Well, you decide for yourself .

Aug 28, 2011

Life is...

Life is... Life is a challenge - meet it.
Life is a gift - accept it.
Life is an adventure - dare it.
Life is full of sorrow - overcome it.
Life is a tragedy - face it.
Life is a duty - perform it.
Life is a game - play it.
Life is a mystery - unfold it.
Life is a song - sing it.
Life is an opportunity - take it.
Life is a journey - complete it.
Life is a promise - fulfill it.
Life is beauty - praise it.
Life is a struggle - survive it.
Life is a goal - achieve it.
Life is a puzzle - solve it.


Taken from : http://www.paversnest.com/inspirational35.htm

Puzzle of Life

Life is a puzzle, many people say that.
But then, a question popped in my mind: why do we call it puzzle? Is there any similarity between them?
As the time goes by, I finally figured out those questions. 
Life is complicated, just like puzzle.

When I was just a little girl, life was simply beautiful, innocent, and easy. It was as easy as turning my palm. There were no any worries.
At that time, I did not have any concepts or deep thoughts about life. The only thing that I did was living my life to the fullest.

But now, everything changes. Life is not as simple as I thought. It is tricky. If I choose the wrong way, I would be trapped – it would not be the same as my beautiful thoughts.

Encounter and good-byes, the inseparable duo, bring a complex feeling most of the time. It is easy to meet new people, but it is hard to let go. Sometimes, there is a reluctant feeling to let go because I have known them too long, too much to be forgotten.

Problems always come and go, no matter who you are and where you are. Although I was a good student, there was a very complex problem at school that I can recall clearly until now. It was actually a trivial problem, but it became ‘huge’ because there was a misunderstanding. It led to a bigger problem: a classmate of mine was harmed. And that’s not the only problem existed, a long list of it is still waiting to be told.

Well, life really is a puzzle. We have to decipher it bit by bit, painstakingly. The ending is determined by ourselves, and no one can change it but ourselves.